I have from time to time written about putting on a pair of “resurrection glasses”, (e.g., here), about trying to see people as God intends them to be in heaven.
Here is a variation on this theme which I picked up from my friend Patrick Madrid. A nice midday aid for an examination of conscience.
BTW… don’t think I meant to restrict the point of our examination of conscience only to the guy who had been biting his tongue. There are other people in the filmette as well.